If you recently broke with your soul mate, you may be in the market looking for books on relationships. But how to tell which the best are between so many titles out there?
In this article we will see which features you should be taking in count when searching for the best books on relationships. And the answer may really surprise you, so keep reading on...
First of all you shouldn't commit the mistake many people do which is to rely on those fancy letters after the author's name. There are several relationship experts that only know what they had learned from books and their degrees.
But they did not had lived that experience to tell what the best way to act his. They only have "expert knowledge" and know theories which are kind of hard to put to practice because they don't know how to explain the precise steps to take to achieve the desired results.
It's better to look for books written by authors who actually did pass through those situations and can tell you how they managed to do it and how you can do it too. Normally, they managed to fix their own bad relationship problem and they have helped hundreds of couples to do the same. This kind of author is the one who cares if he can help others, because he can prove that his method works continuously and for everyone who ever applies it.
You should try to find the new info, the one that even your friends can't help you find when you talk with them. Certainly you don't want to lose your time reading books that just explain "how to put your relationship on second plan for one month and work on you during this period" because lots of e-Books on market just turn a single concept into a full book of 60 pages and this don't deserve your attention neither your money.
Would it be better if a book could tell you what women desire the most? And that would give you a step by step guide for how to give it to her? Could the correct book show you how to recover from an affair? Will it give you techniques to relieve your pain and teach you how to achieve your goals?
At last, you should check who is recommending the book. Are the testimonials a little empty? Do they look like they were written by the author's wife or brother?
You want a book that is recommend by a large variety of people, who went through different situations, in all walks of life. If a guy from Germany and a recently engaged woman from Florida have used the book, well I guess that the chances are that it will work for you too.
